Reasons for Using a Reverse Loan
I mentioned in my last post that quite often I am asked why people apply for a reverse loan and what are the most common reasons.
In my previous post I spoke about a client who had been using her credit cards to pay for her “cost of living” expenses, because her Social Security income was too low to get her through each month.
However, the downside to using credit cards, is eventually you use all of the credit available on them, but still have an ongoing payment that now cannot be met.
You can read about Sylvia and how we managed to eliminate that debt and give her additional money each month from a reverse mortgage in the previous post.
My next example is Bonnie and Jim ( No last name for privacy reasons) who had had a major medical disaster destroy their lives. Medical emergencies are probably the number one reason for causing personal financial collapse as no one is prepared for the medical expenses that come with aging.
He had a great career in the movie studios as a transportation driver and life was quite good for them until he developed diabetes.
Unfortunately like so many men, Jim ignored it and continued to eat and drink whatever he wanted and did not take care of his health. Needless to say he became very ill and almost died resulting in the loss of both of his legs and kidneys to the disease.
He was no longer able to work and they quickly ran out of their savings to pay medical bills and their regular ongoing monthly expenses and used up all of the funds that were available on their credit cards leaving them in a terrible, crushing financial situation.
They owed the IRS money, all the credit cards and ended up doing a Chapter 13 Bankruptcy but somehow managed to continue to make their mortgage payments and ultimately repaid the money they owed to the IRS
I was referred to them by a CPA and in spite of the ugliness of their credit and the bankruptcy, I managed to get them approved for their reverse loan, relieving them of the burden of mortgage payments, plus additional funds that they were able to receive at the close of Escrow.
Making their life just a little bit better.
Jim and Bonnie are doing very well as of this writing and even though their credit had been ruined, I was still able to get them approved for their reverse loan and help them move forward and into better circumstances.
In my last post I mentioned that I would start to share some of my clients’ reasons for applying for a Reverse loan and I think I will start out with one of my earliest clients, Sylvia K.
Needless to say, I will not be sharing their actual names due their right to privacy.
Sylvia was in her early 80’s and a widow for a number of years, but did not have enough income from her Social Security to meet her monthly expenses and she had run up large balances on her credit cards to pay them and now found herself without funds to make the payments and still have money for her utilities and food.
I remember meeting her on a very hot summer day in her home and all the windows where covered up in heavy drapes and it was dark inside and she didn’t have any air conditioning and sweat was running down my spine.
Oh yes….it was “hot” in her home.
A trusted friend and neighbor ( Brenda) was also there, much to my relief because Sylvia was a tough New Yorker and she of course didn’t trust me.
Why should she? She didn’t know me and I was to be treated with great suspicion.
Anyway, it was hotter then Hell in her living room as she “grilled’ me about Reverse loans and made sure that I knew she was one, smart gal and had been in the clothing industry in New York, a “professional” and couldn’t be taken advantage of.
And she was scared as well. Here she was, in her 80’s and out of money. And I really liked her feisty attitude and her three cats, too.
( After she passed away about two years later, I found out about the feral cat colony she was feeding in her back yard).
Brenda asked me questions about the FHA loan, gently encouraged Sylvia to be “nice” to me. ( And here’s the interesting part. Sylvia and I became friends and she used to send me cute note cards to my home address, telling me how she was doing and included the names of her three cats in her signature).
And “yes” she did her Reverse mortgage.
She received a Line-of-Credit, paid off the credit cards and had a comfortable amount of money leftover to use whenever she needed it for anything.
She called me one year after she had celebrated her birthday in Hawaii, just to chat with me and tell me all about the two Birthday parties she had, had and mentioned she wasn’t feeling too well. I said that she probably had “partied’ too much.
But as it turned out, I was the last person she spoke to as she quietly died later that morning at home in her bed and her neighbor Brenda ( Who checked up on Sylvia every day) called me and let me know that Sylvia had passed away.
And as I like to say “she lived life on her terms”and I was the last person she spoke to and I like to think that in the “end” she trusted me.